Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Korczak child of the drawing room from Betty Jean Lifton's bio





His experience as a child with his father taking him to a nativity play showed his reactions as a child to fright and the unknown and to surprises . As he would write later of this incident, to force no unwanted surprises on a child. His father was a pedagogue. It seems Henryk (Janusz) was terrified by the devil in the play and his father was insensitive and uncomprehending the boy's fears. Death of his canary and the insensitivity around him were an expected part of his childhood and when Henryk erected a cross for the bird's grave, he was reminded by the janitor's son the canary was Jewish and so was he. The other boy was Catholic and a Pole. These little scenes are so cosmic and impregnated when engaged in later recall by Janusz now grown.








Sometimes Henryk was summoned to meet the guests and recite the Romantic
ballad by Adam M ickiewicz that all good Polish children were required to
memorize for such occasions: "The Return of Daddy." He would stand pale and
awkward as he began: "Daddy is not coming back! Daddy is not coming back!"
-becoming as he spoke the child who feared his father would be killed by bandits
on his way home from a business trip. The father was eventually spared by the
bandits, who were moved that a child was waiting for him. But little Henryk was
never spared the "false smiles" of the men with prickly beards who blew cigar
smoke in his face, and the strong perfume of the women who tried to draw him
onto their laps. (Until he was reprimanded for it, he wiped his face thoroughly
after each kiss.) He was embarrassed by the senseless ques- tions and hollow
laughter: Whom did he resemble? Oh, he was such a big boy! Just look how he'd
grown! Didn´t they know that children don´t want to be touched or kissed by
strangers? Even his mother and father seemed like strangers at such moments.
His father had already become unpredictable. He tweaked Henryk´s ears quite
hard despite the most emphatic protests from the boy´s mother and grandmother.
"If the child goes deaf, it´ll be your doing," his mother would say. Once, when
the boy had an exciting piece of news, he ran into his father´s study and tugged
at his sleeve. Jozef exploded at him for causing an inkblot on an important
piece of paper. Yet at other times his father would act like a friend,
especially during the Christmas season, when he would take Henryk and his sister
to a Nativity play. His mother was always nervous when the children were out
with Jozef Sometimes it seemed to the boy that his charming, mercurial father
was as dangerous as the janitor´s son. He exuded a reckless male sense of
freedom that was both exciting and terrifying.
Something in Henryk knew that
there was reason for his mother´s concern. "Mama was right to be reluctant about
entrusting her children to the care of her husband," he would say when looking
back on that time, "but just as rightly my sister and I would welcome such
excursions with whoops of delight and remember fondly even the most strenuous
and disastrous pleasures sought with an amazing intuition by that not
particularly reliable pedagogue-my father."
One year when he went with his
father to a Nativity play in the long, overheated hall of an orphanage, his
father agreed with "a mysterious, strange lady" that his son would see better
ifhe sat with the other children in the front row. Already overwhelmed by the
air of mystery in the packed house, the boy panicked at the thought of being
separated from his father. He also remembered that he was always terrified when
the Devil and Death came prancing out.He called out helplessly as he was being
led away. "Daddy!" His father, not comprehending, replied only. "Go along, silly
boy" On the way to his seat, he kept asking the woman whether Herod and the
Devil would appear, but she was as unaware of his anguish as his father. "Wait
and see, " was all she said. It was not by chance that the future educator would
instruct teachers: "Don´t force surprises on children if they don´t want
them."


janusz korczak warsaw paris of the east












It was part of his nature to accompany the children to Treblinka and his life was of a pattern to make moral decisions defined by his actions.




It was not something to take account of, and he would not understand our magnifying of his actions.

He would write that children's' games were not frivolous but stretched their boundaries.
http://korczak.com/Biography/kap-1who.htm










To go in search of Janusz Korczak, as i did, was to seek a man who was no
longer there in a place that was no longer there. His multi-ethnic world no
longer exists. Warsaw, once called the Paris of the East, vibrant with
caf‚s,
fine restaurants, and cabarets, was leveled by the Germans during the
uprising
of the Poles in 1944. Rebuilt after the war (with the baroque
Palace of Culture,
an unwelcome gift from the Russians, dominating the
skyline), the city resonates
with economic and political discontent.
During my four trips to Poland and
my two trips to Israel between 1979
and 1986, the Korczakians were always
generous enough to delve into their
memories for one more detail about their
experiences with Korczak. in the
sparse archives in Warsaw and Israel I was able
to find a few books of
reminiscences by people who had known Korczak in one
capacity or another.
There were also copies of his twenty-four published fiction
and nonfiction
books-many of them autobiographical-as well as the newspaper and
magazine
articles, numbering over one thousand, that he wrote throughout his
life.
Other than the six dozen letters written in the late twenties and thirties
that were saved by their recipients in Palestine, all that remains of
Korczak's
private papers is the diary that he wrote in the last desperate
months of his
life. Smuggled out of the ghetto after his death, it was
sealed up in the walls
of his Catholic orphanage in the Warsaw suburb of
Bielany and retrieved after
the war ended.
Although Korczak died a year
before the Warsaw Ghetto
Uprising, many of his surviving Jewish orphans and
teachers returned to Poland
from all over the world to honor him during the
commemoration of the Uprising´s
fortieth anniversary in April of 1983. They
came reluctantly, some because of
the imposition of martial law in 1981 and
the disbanding of Solidarity, but most
because of the pain of reliving the
past and of seeing how little remained of
the world they had known.
It
is this lost world of Janusz Korczak, and of
Warsaw's 350,000 Jews, that one
encounters when one visits the former site of
the Jewish quarter. It had
been walled in by the Nazis to make the ghetto, and
then burned by them to
make the barren stretch of rubble that for many years
after the war the
Poles referred to as the "Wild West." New buildings have
gradually risen
over the ashes and rubble. The Ghetto Fighters Monument sits in
the center
of this unnatural landscape, reminding one of the unnatural cruelties
which
were committed there.
The International Janusz Korczak Association, based in
Warsaw, invited its members to an unveiling of his bust that now commands the
front courtyard of the former Jewish orphanage. The irony would not be lost on
the Old Doctor that the four-storied white building, gutted during the war, was
restored in the mid-fifties without the garret room that had served as his
study. The stretch of roof is no longer broken by the graceful arc of the
three-paned window through which he had peered at the children playing below and
fed the wild sparrows who kept him company. When the unveiling ceremony was
over, the Korczakians wandered through the orphanage, looking-for what?
Themselves as children or apprentice teachers? For the Old Doctor? For Stefa
Wilczynska, who had been his codirector for thirty years?
The Polish orphans
who live there now moved like phantoms through the halls, making room for the
old phantoms who had come back. They invited us to sit in the large recreation
room, which had also served for dining and studying in Korczak's day, to watch
them perform two short plays: one a humorous skit based on a scene from King
Matt; the other a reenactment of the march by Korczak and the Jewish orphans to
the train that transported them to Treblinka. The Polish children became the
ill-fated Jewish ones they had heard so much about, walking slowly with Korczak
to their unknown destination, even climbing up into an imaginary cattle car and
gathering in a circle around him, swaying with the movement of the train, as he
told them one last story in which good prevails over evil.
On the chartered
bus that was taking us back to our lodgings, I sat next to Michal (Misha)
Wroblewski, a teacher who was the last among the survivors to have seen Korczak
alive. He bad been working on the other side of the wall -at a job Korczak had
managed to find for him- and returned to the ghetto orphanage late that
afternoon to find everyone gone.
Misha was silent for some time, and then he
leaned over to me:" You know, everyone makes so much of Korczak´s last decision
to go with the children to the train. But his whole life was made up of moral
decisions. The decision to become a children´s doctor. The decision to give up
medicine and his writing career to take care of poor orphans. The decision to go
with the Jewish orphans into the ghetto. As for that last decision to go with
the children to Treblinka, it was part of his nature. It was who he was. He
wouldn´t understand why we are making so much of it today. "
As I worked on
this book back in New York City and Cape Cod, I came to see
Korczak as a man who walked without fear over what the Hasidim call the narrow
bridge of life, making at each stage the moral decisions that would inform his
actions


The boy heard repeatedly from his mother that poor children were dirty, used bad language, and had lice in their hair. They fought, threw stones, got their eyes poked out, and caught terrible diseases. But he saw nothing wrong with the janitor´s son and his friends. They ran about merrily all day, drank water from the well, and bought delicious candy from the hawkers whom he wasn´t allowed to go near. Their bad words were actually funny, and it was a hundred times more inviting to be down there with them than in that boring apartment with his French governess and his little sister Anna. "A child is someone who needs to move," he would write one day; to forbid this is "to strangle him, put a gag in his mouth, crush his will, burn his strength, leaving only the smell of smoke."
"That boy has no ambition," his mother said when she saw him playing hide-and-seek with his sister's doll. She didn´t understand that while searching for the doll, he moved into dimensions beyond the narrow confines of his apartment.
"The doll wasn't merely a doll, but the ransom in a crime, a hidden body which had to be tracked down. "
"Children's games aren't frivolous," he would write. "Uncovering a secret, finding a hidden object, proving that there is nothing that cannot be found-that´s the whole point."
His father flew into a rage, calling him "a clod, fool, or an idiot" when he saw him sitting for hours with his building blocks. He didn´t understand that Henryk was constructing the solitary towers that would appear in King Matt the First "and other books as a symbol of refuge for the orphaned and the lost. "Feelings that have no outlet become daydreams," he wrote. "And daydreams become the internal script of life. If we knew how to interpret them, we would find they come true. But not always in the way we expect."